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Goal activation (your missing ingredient)

May 17, 2023

“Start with WHY.”

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Simon Sinek’s advice has become so cliché that it’s often ignored.

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This warm and fuzzy idea easily falls out of favor — replaced by “tangible” goals we have in career and life.

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We’re obsessed with:

  • Raising our net worth
  • Getting a better job
  • Buying that home

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Nothing wrong with these goals.

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We all want to see results in the “real world,” right?

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Why then don’t we make more progress on goals?

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Why do we just spin our wheels at the starting line?

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The answer is simple.

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We lack goal activation.

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I’m talking about that spark that fuels us — not once but daily.

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Back to Simon.

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Your why is your goal activator.

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You need a powerful why, but most people suck at identifying and nurturing it.

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It takes significant daily work to keep that flame lit.
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“The work” of goal activation

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Here’s what people tell me they have as goals:

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“Flexibility”

“Financial freedom”

“Doing what I want when I want”

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LAME.

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All this stuff is dead on arrival.

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How so? It lacks specificity and emotion. That means you’ll never achieve it.

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Instead, do this:

  1. Close your eyes and be still
  2. See a movie on a big screen in front of you
  3. Envision a future scenario in your life that brings you into a profound emotional state: joy, pride, (even) anger
  4. Capture this emotional scenario — it’s your WHY

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To make it real, I’ll share my why with you.
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My why (goal activator)

It's 100% about my wife, Cecilia, and my 4 kids.

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I'm obsessed with demonstrating a self-directed life and the possibilities it can unlock.

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Each morning, I visualize:

  • The proud look in their eyes
  • As they see me live on my terms
  • While serving others with generosity
  • And creating a life that's true to my soul

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In my mind, my kids say, “My dad’s a badass!”

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My wife brags to her friends about me.

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And by living MY most authentic life, I see myself unshackling them from the CRIPPLING bonds of the default path.

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I get very emotional when watching this scenario in my mind daily.

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But that’s the trick — I reconnect to it every day.

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And by doing that, I can wipe away yesterday’s frustrations and start fresh — invigorated.

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Those 5 beautiful humans are my WHY. They fuel me each day.
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Your missing ingredient

You need to activate your goals every single day.

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This happens by engaging your why.

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Don’t think that wishing for “financial freedom” will suffice. You would’ve made more progress by now.

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Embrace that you’re human.

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That means playing the game of life — a game of emotions.

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You must enter an emotional state that triggers bold and calculated actions, not weak or general ones.

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Get serious about your why…and use it.

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Throw gasoline on that fire to activate your goal..every damn day 🔥

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